Dear Farm Couple:

When I read your letter, the first thing that came to mind is does your wife really want to be with another woman. I know when women make sexual comments about other women, their men get amped up envisioning 3-ways. Some women just like to look at other chicks and that's all there is to it. So make sure that's what she really wants before pushing the issue. Also, you will want to find out if this is an adventure you two will share or if it's a solo mission. When I was with my ex, we shared girls and it was hot. And of course, there's nothing wrong about messing around with another woman as long as you are OK with it and she's honest about her feelings.

I would say that you need to ease her into the idea of being with another woman—start off small. I would say get her imagination going. When you're going down on her (or you can try this with a toy), tell her to pretend a chick is down there. If she gets all hot and bothered and has a bigger orgasm than usual, you'll know you're on the right track. Another thing you could do is point out other chicks while you are out and ask her what she thinks of them. This will give you an idea of what her type is and you might even find a girl to take home for her.

The next logical step would be to watch a movie with either two girls and a guy or an all-girl flick. This definitely gets me in the mood. Of course, I can suggest a few. Reality King's We Live Together #4 is a movie about college girls going out and picking up chicks and scoring with their female roommates. This girl-on-girl flick is reality based and not full of professional porn chicks—she might even learn some skills on how to pick up chicks from this one. Bad Seed's 10 Dirty Talking Masturbators #2 is a solo girl movie that features girls pleasuring themselves and using toys. No doubt this one will get her (and probably you) off.

And if girls with toys are her thing, you'll also want to check out Intense Industries' Girls Dil-Doing Girls, an all-girl slumber party featuring toys. Look under the All Girls genre tab for more movies. And, you know Betty is big on sex ed. I would say rent both of these movies—Adam & Eve's Nina Hartley's Guide To Sex For The Bi Curious Woman and Nina Hartley's Guide to Threesomes: Two Girls & A Guy.

As for toys, I would purchase those for her when she has already been with a girl a few times. Or you could purchase them right away. If she's going to be flying solo (or you'll be watching), I would recommend a double dildo and/or maybe a strap on. Or you can just go really basic with a vibrator (or two). Just make sure when the girls share toys that they clean the toy before the other person uses it—this will cut down on infections and the potential spread of STDs.

Hope this helps! Be safe and have fun.

Love, Betty

Dear BD:

Great question! I get this one a lot. Fortunately, there are a lot of good looking younger male performers. Gone are the days of the hairy, fat guys. More women than ever are watching porn. And, we want to see some hot guys.

If bald and tattooed is your thing, you'll dig Derrick Pierce. Catch him in Vivid's Debbie Does Dallas…Again, Adam & Eve's Tease and Club Jenna's Casting Couch #3, just to name a few.

My personal fave is Jerry, a buff Czechoslovakian babe. Did I mention the accent? He's been in a ton of movies including Digital Playground's Filth Cums First, Voyeur Media's SWAT: Sex With A Teenager #2, Hustler's Young Latin Ass #5 and Vivid's The Sunny Experiment.

Jack Venice is tanned, buff and looks like he spends a lot of time at the beach. He's recently appeared in Venom's Great Big Tits #5, Shane's World's Trust Justice #2, Evil Angel's E Is For Eva, Hush Hush Entertainment's Bachelor Party Fuckfest #6 and Voodoo House's Good Morning Woody.

Friend of Joanna Angel and boy next door, James Deen is a favorite among the ladies. He's young, hung and dashing. You can catch him in Combat Zone's Grand Slam #2, Red Light District's What A Booty #4, Voodoo House's Freaky First Timers #7, Greedy's Boy Meets MILF and Zero Tolerance's 2 Young To Fall In Love.

Porn stud Alec Knight definitely tops many of the ladies lists. With his piercing green eyes, this guy can really turn on the charm. Recently, he's starred in Vivid's Bad Luck Betties, Teravision's Daddy I'm A Porn Star Now! and Adam & Eve's Taking Memphis.

Frenchman Manuel Ferrara started in porn by winning a contest. Now, he's a performer and director. Catch this multiple award-winner in such films as Red Light District's Tease Me Then Please Me #7, Evil Angel's Bangin' Black Boxes (he stars and directs this one), Vivid's 200 Proof and Digital Sin's Bound To Please #2.

And lastly if blonde hair and blue eyes drive you wild, you'll love Erik Everhard. This Canadian actor/performer has performed in over 500 movies—many of these can be found on WantedList including Diabolic's Watch Your Back, Club Jenna's Sophia Royale, Jules Jordan's Innocent Until Proven Filthy #3 (he performs and directs in it), Digital Playground's Filth Cums First #2, Penthouse's The Bottom Drawer and Shane's Worlds' Casey Parker Is… Boy Crazy.

You can also do a search under any of these performers' names to find more of their movies.

Happy viewing!

Love,
Betty

Dear DP:

Looks like you're a fan of the reverse gang bang, meaning the chicks outnumber the dudes. Nice. I can suggest some movies so movies to fit that bill. But unfortunately after much research, I was unable to find the movie you were asking about.

Italian stud, Rocco Siffredi, seems to have corned the reverse gang bang market. He has a series of movies through Evil Angel: Rocco's Reverse Gang Bang, Rocco's Reverse Gang Bang #2 and Rocco's Reverse Gang Bang #3. In each movie, he takes on 20 chicks or more. Now that's stamina. Another flick to watch would be another Evil Angel movie, Euro Angels Hardball #19: Reverse Gang Bang Edition. Watch Christoph Clark and his buddies take on a bevy of babes (at once) including Czech hotties, Jane Darling and Stacey Silver. You might also want to check out Devils Films' Reverse Interracial Gang Bang—yes one lucky black man can take on 10 whores.

And now for movies with multiple Black women fucking 1 or 2 white guys…Shane's World's Hawaiian Vacation is the story of 3 black chicks and 2 dudes packing their bags for a little rest and relaxation along with some group sex. Black Ice has a line of All That Ass: The Orgy. Check out the series with volumes 1 through 5. And lastly, Black Ice also has another flick called 2 Ho's & A Bro—watch Brian Plumper and his buddies take one two chicks at once including Havana Ginger, Ice LaFox and Jada Fire.

Happy viewing!

Love, Betty

A Special Note From Betty:

Thank you for all your questions, offers for 3-ways and your patience (I get a lot of questions, so it takes time to get around to them all).

And remember, no problem is too big or small. I'm here to help. So, don't be shy—write me.